'Angels in the Pews' raises awareness of substance abuse

On Sept. 30, the parish of Saint Stephen’s in Kearny, N.J. hosted an event in conjunction with the Black Poster Project and Alumni in Recovery, known as “Angels in the Pews.” This event is meant to raise awareness of substance abuse and addictive behavior among many in our communities.

Begun by two women, Dee Gillen and Sheryl Cashin, both Bergen Country residents who lost their young adult sons to substance abuse, the Black Poster Project is a traveling display. Family members who have lost loved ones can have a poster created in memory of their loved one.

Each poster contains a picture of the deceased, their dates of birth and death, and a story. The story might be a biography or a quote, a song lyric, or a heartfelt letter from a survivor. Those who attend the event are encouraged to walk silently through the display, reading the stories and looking at the names and faces.

It is a powerful reminder of those we have lost all too soon. Adults, young adults, and teenagers are affected by the disease of substance abuse. And it is important that communities recognize the need to do something to confront it. Raising awareness is the first step.

On Sept. 30, the parish of Saint Stephen's in Kearny, N.J. hosted an event in conjunction with the Black Poster Project and Alumni in Recovery, known as "Angels in the Pews." This event is meant to raise awareness of substance abuse and addictive behavior among many in our communities. — *On Sept. 30, the parish of Saint Stephen’s in Kearny, N.J. hosted an event in conjunction with the Black Poster Project and Alumni in Recovery, known as “Angels in the Pews.”*

At our event at Saint Stephen’s, the doors of the Church were open from 5 to 9 p.m. We estimate that approximately 150 people came to view the display. Many of those who came weren’t quite sure what to expect and said, commented upon leaving, at how “moving,” “astonishing,” “sad,” and “revealing” the display was.

Dee and Sheryl have dedicated much time to this project, and they take it very personally. Their sons’ posters are included in the display. In fact, the day of the event at Saint Stephen’s was the anniversary of Sheryl’s son’s death. Both related how gratifying it is when a large turnout comes to the display. In some communities, very few people attend.

Very often, those struggling with substance abuse and addictive behavior feel that no one cares, no one listens, and no one can do anything. As people of faith, we are called to reach out, love, and embrace all of God’s children, especially those who suffer and are vulnerable.

Having seen firsthand the incredible power of this display, I encourage my brother priests, especially pastors, to consider hosting the Black Poster Project in their parish. Substance abuse and addictive behavior are everywhere, and they do not discriminate.

For more information, please visit the Black Poster Project’s website.

Very Rev. Joseph A. Mancini is pastor of Saint Stephen’s Church in Kearny, N.J.